Dear Tommy,
I wanted to write this message to talk about how I feel and felt whilst we had our time together in addition to what I’ll take with me from it.
When we spent time together Tommy you were always so inquisitive looking for the next thing to learn and conquer. As soon as you grew from wriggling, crawling to aided-walking no one could keep up with you for long as you rummaged through your favourite books, toys and anything we used. You had such joy in exploring through play as we would have to chase the distant slapping of your crawl to only find you cackling back at us whilst opening cupboards or playing with new items. From learning to borrow, clap, burble and wave you showed how clever you were. However, you were also wise as you put trust in others without worry or prejudice even in trying times making everyone and yourself smile, gaining the most from the time you had. When you were here it helped me develop this side of me too and Il keep developing along with your tenacity to gain the most out of my life; embracing my inner Tommy.
An aside is how much you make me happy even when you aren’t there. When I’m alone I daydream at times when I need something to get me through the day. I am surprised no one has yet caught me cackling, evil laughing, playing peekaboo or pretend sneezing with you in my work area. Still, nothing beat seeing your smile when doing these things with you. Of course, I can’t forget Thomas the tank engine and how you would dance to it whilst holding the cabinet. Even after you were diagnosed you would instead help us sing the final note of the theme each time and giggle at the crashes. This was in addition to your love of reading throughout. There are so much more fun memories the families have to talk about but not enough words to portray it.
To finish, I will miss you and coming home to your infectious smile. However, we have many fond memories to keep us company and I hope you do too. Your Family and friends loved you very much and are here to support each other in your absence.
I wish you all the best.
Love you,
Uncle Mikes
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14 July 2022